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Winning
People Over
Friends are people who share the same views in life. In
our eagerness to win people over, we sometimes
mistakenly believe that we need to put all our efforts
into doing anything to win their friendship.
Truth is,
some people just get along while others just don't.
People are built differently, which is why we develop
certain kinds of friendships. We are like birds of a
feather - which we all know - stick together.
There are some things in life we cannot change. Instead,
Joel Osteen, the world's leading inspirational speaker,
urges all of us to believe in ourselves and to know our
worth.
People radiating confidence become the more
popular ones simply because they inspire others around
them to be the same upbeat individual. |
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No one likes to surround themselves with gloom, unless
their purpose in life is to bring others down.
But then again, who wants to be with this sort of
person? When we become too much of a pessimist, we can't
blame the others who try to avoid us. In fact, we might
be guilty of doing the same when we encounter people we
just don't like
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The secret to winning people over is to exude a positive
aura. When we become happy with whom we are, we'll soon
see people flocking to us. It's all a matter of
communicating our inner glow and of believing in our
ability to make others feel good.
But if we force ourselves to become someone else, we
tend to radiate insincerity. It's when we are truly
beautiful from within and believe that we are will
people start to perceive what we see in ourselves.
Developing great people skills is simply a matter of
outlook. We need to work on the skills that we already
possess and find ways to enhance them. Our personality
traits are neither good nor bad. When it comes to who we
are, we shouldn't see things as absolutes. We are born
with these traits. It's just difficult to let go of some
of them because they have become habits.
What matters most in how we deal with every situation
and our ability to become flexible. There's a fine line
between flexibility and change, but what sets these two
apart is the willingness to adjust to another person but
at the same time, not forget who we truly are.
When the Cheshire cat gave the rabbit rose-colored
glasses in one scene from Alice in Wonderland, he simply
wanted the rabbit to see the world in an affirmative
light. Seeing the world through the eyes of an idealist
isn't necessarily a bad thing.
After all, it is in being positive that we
can we truly know what our strengths are and how we can
make ourselves better. It is how every person should
look at life, and this is what creates strong personal ties between
human beings
Richard Rossbauer
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