personal deelopment and self empowerment

Steering Yourself towards the Path You Choose

   Just like the story of Aladdin, you have to find your own magic lamp, your own life path to get you to your dreams and to fulfill your destiny.

   Imagine this, you go through the daily grind, pay for all the mistakes that you didn't make in the first place, and are still answerable to someone else. A lot of people lead this kind of life.

   To know if you're one of them, ask yourself if you align actions according to your personal beliefs. Most likely, it's not all the time that you get to do what you want.

   In fact, you may find yourself joining the bandwagon, going with the flow, and still feeling that somehow, deep down inside, you're not exactly enjoying the moment.

  First and foremost, you must not mistake selflessness with a lack of courage. Most of the time, we do what we must do for fear of rejection or fear of being ridiculed.

   This may be part of maintaining the peace around you, but maybe there is a way you can get yourself out from this rut.

   No one is forcing you to be where you are right now. In fact, you are the master of your own destiny, the person answerable for everything. Do you really want to see yourself 20 years from now living life with regret? Hardly.

   You need to realize that every life is distinctive, even yours. No matter how mundane things may be, there are just some aspects in your life that are uniquely yours. You need to know what is most important to you right now. Otherwise, what matters most will soon be forgotten. You can get distracted by other activities such as work, bills to pay, economic crisis, pressing problems, and just basically an array of activities that takes most of our day's time.

   You need to make a list of things you want to do - your Life's Goals. As dramatic as this sounds, it does help a lot to have an actual representation of all your life's goals. Never ever forget to take care of yourself and your health along the way.

   We all want to achieve many things so that we can become happy, and happiness is just not possible if your health and the relationships you have with the people in your life crumble away. Take a look at your list on a daily basis and attend to it, even if it's only for a fraction of your day.

   Life is meant to be a journey, and whether you're 20 or 80 years old, you still need to get into the adventure. Age is insignificant here. For your Life Action Plan, get yourself into the thick of things and surprise yourself by learning just how much you can do. Living your life according to someone else's rules is never the way to live. The choice has to always come from you.

   Just like the story of Aladdin, you do have to find your own magic lamp, find your own path to get you to your dreams and to fulfill your destiny. Now, go back to the list that you made and start seeing the numbers being crossed out. It's now time to begin your life's new journey.

                                                                                       Richard Rossbauer
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