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Making Healthy
Relationships Possible
Part of life's experience is that we encounter
relationships that fade over time. We should allow these
to be learning experiences. There are just some things
we cannot control; things that are out of our hands. For
relationships to remain healthy, we need to look at
ourselves first.
We must evaluate our actions and see what caused the
Relationship Problems in the first place.
We can start
by evaluating ourselves. Because we can't control the
actions of other people, instead of dwelling on what we
cannot be in command of, we need to address what we can
change.
It's vitally important for all of us to know the things
that will enable us to become a friend, a colleague, and
the partner that we want to become. |
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The first thing to assess is our worth and the value we
hold as a person.
Are we the kind of friend to go the extra mile? Are we
good confidants? Do we take our friends' needs into
consideration?
These are only a few of the many questions we can ask
ourselves. When the answer always leads to the negative,
then it's time that we think of evaluating our nature.
The next thing is to measure our level of commitment.
Oftentimes, we don't equate the longevity of our
relationships with the kind of person we are. Of course,
every situation is unique. We meet people along the way,
and find that only a few of them make ideal friends.
The thing is, we have to know the cause for the
breakdown of every bond we've created.
Then, we can weigh these against the relationships that
have actually worked. We must commit ourselves to every
association we find beneficial. What gets us through
life's tough times are the people that we've helped.
We
need support during the most difficult of times, and the
only way to make this possible is to become a true
friend to the people we have in our lives.
When all is said and done, we should know and realize
that we are good people. We deserve these friendships
because we don't expect anything from them in return.
People are naturally inclined to show kindness to those
who are genuine with their deeds. As long as we stay
true to ourselves, we can also say that we are
comfortable with whom we are. It's when we are happy
that we create ideal relationships.
The truth, therefore, is that life's relationships are
what we make of them.
Richard Rossbauer
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